A Few Notes.

Um, yeah, so about that rant yesterday. {Scroll on down if you missed it.}

Thanks for seeing me through it.

I do want to say a few things in hindsight.

I actually enjoy Twitter.  It is a great way to keep up with you guys and Ashton Kutcher.

My experience there for the most part has been great.  I encourage you join in.  There are lots of totally cool and super nice, rainbow-and-unicorn sitstas hanging out!  

I want to clarify something about SITS- you can use profanity on your blog and still be featured, we just ask that it's not in the 3 posts we link to.  Many bloggers just change it for the day and then change it back.  Your blog is your space.  Period.

While I know some of you would LOVE to know who I am talking about, I won't say for 2 reasons:  {1} I'd rather slide down a razor blade into a pool of acid than give them a single pageview.  {2} I have no interest in perpetuating drama.

What I needed was a good, ol' fashion vent, and you let me have it.

You "stroked my hair and told me I was pretty." {©Kathy}  

You "loved me through it" {©Heather}

You offered to "make out." {©Lula}

You offered to "beat them up" {©Summer}

You told me I "should feel lucky." {and, I do! @Katie}

You ALL made me feel heard and validated.

I know it's silly, but every girl needs that once in a while.

With a big vat of chocolate and a bottle of wine.

So a big, fat, Thank You to each and every one of you.

Rainbows and Unicorns for everyone!

Comments

Krissy said…
Glad you're feeling better =]


[And sometimes the best love is bloggy love]

Happy Friday!
AP Mommy said…
Glad that you're on the up-swing. GREAT aution stuff over at SITS! :) Stop by my blog to see my latest concept for commenting and bloggy love: Java Jaunt with Jo
Megan said…
Glad you are feeling better about things today. It does help to get crap off your chest sometimes.

I wish I had known there was Chocolate and wine involved though....... can't get better than that!
Sandy said…
When you step in dog poo, it's best just to shake it off and move on!

Chocolate and wine would help though;0)
Snarky Belle said…
I don't think I can say it any better than Sandy already did!

Have a wonderful weekend!!

Is that vat big enough to just swim around in?? :)
Tara said…
must have had a good night's sleep yeah?? and i'm not going to lie, i'm DYING to know WHO....but i'll move on...but if you ever just need to tell someone...I'm here ;o)
Rebecca said…
Glad you are feeling better!
We love you! You and Heather do an awesome job. Those other bashers are just jealous. They wish they could have what SITS has. They don't and never will, so they choose to be jerks!
Jess said…
I'm so glad you're feeling better!!

but I just can't get that whole 'razor blade and acid out of my head'
OUCH!! lol
Tracy P. said…
It was a worthy rant, Tiffany. You hit the nail right on the head about the in crowd needing to "cement their reign". It is sad. And yes, very high school.

SITS is very grown up, and so amazing. I can't tell you how awed I am by the forethought you and Heather gave it to make it exactly what you intended it to be. It gives people who may or may not have known life in the "in crowd" a chance to have support in growing up healthy. Because really, we are all still growing up. Thank God for that!

And thank YOU for helping. :-)
I'm glad you are feeling better today. And I'm sorry I didn't offer to make out with you. ;) hehe. But yeah -- venting is healthy. :)
Amy said…
If you have a chance watch Oprah today your friend will be on.
Cindy said…
Glad you're feeling better. When you are ready to crap open that bottle of wine & vat of chocolate, call my name!
Cecily R said…
You're RAD. That's all I have to say.
Summer said…
um, hello? What about the ones who threatened to beat them up?!? ;-)
Anonymous said…
Everyone needs to rant now and then...it's freeing!
Alison said…
I didn't get a chance to comment yesterday, but I totally agree with you. I haven't had any drama from Twitter, but I do know that SITS is awesome. We don't need any more criticism and negativity, so good for you for telling it like it is and then moving on.

With the help of wine and chocolate, of course!
Unknown said…
I am so proud to be a member of the sits group! I am still trying to figure out twitter...
KatBouska said…
I'm still going to find out.

And you are very very pretty.
LOVE SITS! I'm glad that you are feeling better! Keep your chin up and know that you are doing something truly remarkable!
shortmama said…
Glad you are feeling better today!
Megan R. said…
s'ok. We all need to vent sometimes. You should see my open letter to the folks at frito lay. Or to the shoppers and workers at Wal mart. I understand. Some people just suck.
mommakin said…
I am relatively new to SITS and brand new to your blog (which, BTW, I'm lovin')

Your rant was well deserved and well spoken.
barb said…
You rock!

Barb - Black Belt Scrapper
Hear, hear. I'm thinking now that if you haven't told Kathy you probably won't tell me. Crap. :)
Susie said…
I am glad you feel better! Those other sites can't hold a candle to you guys:-)
Ashley said…
Rainbows and Unicorns!! Let's all go to our happy place!

Hehe! ;)
Great post. Love your blog!
Ash said…
It's all good.

I have to repeat my Hubs' philosophy sometimes..."jerks, the world's full of them," with a shoulder shrug and a move along little doggie.

This little doggie is moving along...
Juliet Grossman said…
I don't know what the twitter drama is but I wanted to give you a big SITS & hometown hug (((HUGS))) Keep your chin up!
Anonymous said…
How about a vat of pomegranate martinis, half assed tropicana lemonade and vodkas and cheap ass pizza mias?

Forgive me, for I am toasted right now. As you well know.
Live.Love.Eat said…
Amen SISTsa!!!!!!!!!! And I raise your bottle of wine with some white rum and coke I am having right now.
Melanie said…
Thanks for the rainbows and unicorns. Right back atcha.
Salena said…
yesss!!! haha awesome blog. I love Ashton Kutcher and twitter. And good job avoiding drama! props to you! keep doing what your doing! Salena
wenderful said…
Gosh, it looks like I missed a great rant. Everyone needs a good one every now and then.
Hope you are feeling better. I for one have loved SITS and enjoy visiting lots of different SITstas. I've learned lots and have even made a few friends. You guys are brilliant. Can't wait for my day in the sun.
Lula! said…
The offer to make out is firm and open-ended.

(That's what she said.)
Alicia said…
I am very new to blogging, and had no idea there were cliques... I joined SITS (got my first post form linking the other day I was so excited!) so that I could get my blog out and to find new blogs that I have not come across. I think this statement "Our biggest obstacle as women is often each other." Speaks volumes. Thanks for the RANT! nothing like a good rant to get you through some Bulllish!

Alicia
Unknown said…
I joined twitter a few weeks ago and have yet to see it's usefullness in my life too...but I am willing to give it a go. I joined, blogged about it, and am seeing what sort of benefit it might be to me in my humble little life. What spurned me to check it out was the incessant talk about it on the news and when I found out that Mr. Demi Moore's contest was actually to benefit a not-for-profit organization to benefit people. So far, I love facebook for keeping up with the family and old/current friends, and blogging has started to become a source of laughter and identification with other people, esp. other women. I have only been a SITSta a few days but I am already enjoying the "community" I am seeing. Have faith, a few of us out there are really looking for this kind of thing:)
T.

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